Belonging: In Search of Acceptance

CMU and Mennonite Church Canada (partners in operating CommonWord) are shocked and saddened by the manipulative and abusive actions of Jean Vanier, which came to light on February 22, 2020. We unreservedly condemn his violent actions, and stand in solidarity with all victims of sexual violence. We also acknowledge the immense good done through the work of L’Arche since its founding in 1964, now a federation of communities for people with developmental disabilities and those who assist them, spread over 37 countries. Vanier played an instrumental role in shaping the vision of L’Arche, and during his lifetime wrote 30 books on religion, disability, normality, success and tolerance. The paradox of his manipulative abuse and his life-giving vision for L’Arche leaves us feeling anger, lament and confusion.

As CMU and CommonWord reflect on this paradox, we have determined to temporarily remove Vanier’s books from our shelves. We do so to signal our condemnation of his actions; to acknowledge the raw wounds that his choices open in the lives of victims of sexual violence; and our need for patient, ongoing reflection in life situations imbued with dissonant complexity. We view this choice as a necessary, provisional time of lament as we contemplate this brokenness.

Going forward, CMU and CommonWord will choose to hold together the deep contradiction of Vanier’s actions and the worthiness of his vision for L’Arche. In holding this paradox we acknowledge that our engagement with Vanier’s writing and legacy will change over time, a change that will demand our ongoing reorientation. In that spirit, CommonWord will in due course continue to hold and make available the writings of Jean Vanier.

What is the greatest human emotional need? Most would say, "to be loved." However, underlying this desire is a deeper need, profoundly woven into the very core of our beings - the desire to belong.

Where do I fit? Do I belong to someone or something beyond myself? Is there some way in which I am held in connection to the greater world around me?

Everyday advertising bombards us with endless images, slogans, and jingles prodding us to buy things to make our lives better. The promises of satisfaction and reward are great but they do not truly satisfy, nor do they substitute for the basic need to feel part of something greater than ourselves and to truly belong.

Internationally known and respected philosopher, Jean Vanier, from the picturesque village of Trosly, France, explores prophetic, counter-cultural ideas regarding human fulfilment.

You will find surprising experiences that help you connect with your own inner journey. You'll see a cross-section of individuals from around the world - rich and poor, a top executive and a refugee, a questioning housewife, a hurting child who is bullied at school, and others - who share life-changing insights into the human search for acceptance.

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